I’m a big believer in attracting positive energy, if you are a positive person you will attract positive people and so on. The same applies for your business or website, if you write in a negative way you will get negative comments, not necessarily negative about your content or site, but negative about the situation you are talking about.
This isn’t good, negative comments in posts can actually cause a traffic spike, because most people love a good whinge, but ultimately what are you going to do after that spike, release another negative post and cause more negativity?
I could have named this bullet ‘negative’ but that would lead it into a negative post. Being positive is where it’s at, there is so much pain and suffering in this world at the moment, people who come to your site should feel one of three things; uplifted, educated, motivated. What ever your market place you have a job to do so make sure every piece of content is positive.
I’ve just filmed a new video for a post in which will come out soon, in which I’m pumped to the max, no not straight out of the gym but buzzing from the adrenaline this site and it’s journey is giving me, that positive attitude and action will motivate others to make them believe they can achieve anything they want to, because it’s all out there you just have to grab it. I didn’t just release a video on the importance of hating everything!
Ever been in a traffic jam? Of course you have I live my life in them these days, but the thing I do and I tell you this works, if you haven’t tried it, don’t laugh just yet give it a go, but yeah the thing I do is to think about a space opening up I can squeeze into instead of thinking how bad the traffic is.
If you think that the traffic is awful and how late you are going to be, then guess what you’re going to hit more traffic, more problems and you will for sure be late.
If, however, You think you will find a spot to get around the traffic or someone will let you in and you will get to your destination on time no problem, then you will. OK sometimes this doesn’t always work out, but without getting all LifeStyle design on you, if the traffic doesn’t clear up at least you will arrive a lot more relaxed having not stressed about the traffic for the last hour.
How do you relate all this to your site? Well a few different ways, if your stressing about finding new readers and traffic then it’s going to come out in your posts, that despair will be evident for all to see. The same goes for comments, if all you leave are negative pessimistic views on every site you visit, your click through traffic and new subscribers will be minimal at best.
Leave informative inspiring or educational comments for the best karma a site could hope for.
Don’t get me wrong here you don’t have to go all out and be the happy smiling nut everywhere you go, sprinkling fairy dust everywhere you go, you can oppose to things. It has to be done properly though, I’m a real hot head made from fire and it’s something I have to be massively aware of, so I take the time to construct what I am trying to say then make sure it reads and comes across constructively rather than aggressive or negative.
This is a hard thing to do but it’s something that needs to be done. Slamming someone else on a site is bad enough but if you go all out and do it every where you go then your in for a world of hurt. I have seen a lot of people instantly take things I say on the back foot and immediately go on the offensive you can see it straight away and if I can see it, so can everyone else.
Ultimately all this boils down to being your self but having the respect for your readers. As I said earlier, your job is to educate, uplift or motivate not to alienate.
What does everyone think?

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