Is your blogging sincere? Authentic bloggers win every time – Guest Post

Michael Fletcher is currently living and working in Johannesburg, South Africa. Michael worked as a manager for 7 years, where he first discovered his passion for helping others excel and now runs Monetize Your Life a personal development blog focused on increasing your ability to produce results that are meaningful in your life. Michael over to you;

Too often when I go through my daily ritual of web-o-philia I’m smacked in the face by the callous insincerity of a lot of online personalities. You’ve seen them during your daily trip through comments sections, forums and blog posts. The web is full of these trolls out to catch a free ride and make a quick buck. While we all have goals for our own blog, the reality is we can’t really achieve any of them on our own. We can’t visit our own blog 1000 times a day, well we can but erm… unless we’re looking to relocate to a nice quiet padded room to blog from what’s the point?

Blogging makes us dependant on others

If we’re going to succeed at blogging the only way to do it is through others. Now the problem with other people is, unlike google bots, they’re not dumb. In fact trick one of these other people once and they’re likely not going to return. Worse still unlike those poor miserable bot bastards, other people have friends. Worse still many of these other people live lives so depressing they have nothing better to do than to complain about annoying webmasters who use their sites to try and distract you as they pick your pocket. When we venture out into the world of blogging, we need to remember growing your blog is an organic process. You cannot cheat the system. Sure streamline the crap out of your system. Have your content pouring from you like water. Promote at the press of a button. These are all tools but ultimately we, like the farmer and his crops, are dependant on our readers. Treat them with respect and grow your relationship with them slowly. Make sure you give them what they need and pretty sure your manure will turn to roses or some other thing that grows in the ground.

Blogging makes us responsible for others

The only way to get what you want is to give what  you want. If you want loads of comments, you’ve got to give them. Oh yes, if you want loads of quality comments then you can probably guess how to get them too. No one owes you anything. You’re going to get what you give most days. When you make yourself responsible for others success you become authentically involved in their blogs and lives. These are the kinds of interactions that will send your success skyrocketing. When you genuinely and sincerely take an interest in others you’ll find they’ll begin to take an interest in you. Without that genuine-ess though you’re going to find yourself alone or worse still sitting at your blog with the vultures circling.

Authenticity makes the blogging world go round

You want lasting results for your blog?

Do:

Write about topics you’re passionate about

Don’t:

Write about the latest and greatest thing just because it’s a hot topic. This kind of sensationalism might bring in some quick google traffic but will probably annoy the life out of your regular readers.

Do:

Retweet, share links and bookmark the great content you find as fast as your over worked mouse can carry you.

Don’t:

Spam your loving social network with affilliate links and obviously automated content designed to trick the masses into your twittering clutches.

Do:

Comment on blogs you enjoy

Don’t:

Use the words great and post next to each other. Don’t hint at the fact that you’ll whore out your comments if you receive comments in return, if your comments are good they’ll generate traffic for you without the tackiness.

Do:

Reply to all the comments you get

Don’t

Take your readers for granted. Most readers don’t bother subscribing to comment feeds or emails because they have become accustomed to being ignored. Get stuck in there and reply to everything

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